Listen, rejection is apart of your life. A lot of people have issues with being rejected in a club, being rejected from a college, or just rejection all together. IT....WILL....BE....O.....K. I promise you life will move on and proceed the moment that person says no. Let me give you a few tips I've learned on my journey....
1. You have to try. How will you ever even know the answer if you don't even try? Whenever you see something you want, go after it THEN because you will try to talk yourself out of it. You see that fine ass thang across the dancefloor go THEN, don't wait, go THEN cause you'll talk your self away. At least go and make your interest known. [That is of course unless they are with a SigO (significant other), in that case, back off jezebel!]
2. Play by ear. If that person is giving interest back, keep going with it. If you're getting short answers like "Yea", "No", "Maybe"....it's time to cancel that order and move on. You can usually tell if a person is interested by our natural instincts. If the person is playing games move on as well because no one deserves to have their emotions played with. One word of advice also, don't mistake kindness for flirtation. I know a lot of times I will just entertain conversation because I hate when people are rude and don't speak to me. I try to make it clear that I'm not interested but er'body aint as nice as me. But again you should be able to tell.
3. Trust yourself! Never doubt your powers because you give all the power to doubt. You are a lot stronger than you think. Be realistic and you will be fine.
CONFIDENCE IS KEY!!!
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